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Raket
Jan 11, 2006 9:51:58 GMT -5
Post by apol on Jan 11, 2006 9:51:58 GMT -5
;)Mga kosa walang magawa sa earth. kktpos lng ng klase at kakauwi ko lng. Mga 10:30 pm n cgro. Anyway, i have some realizations that id like to share with everyone... 1. pag pala tumatanda ang isang tao (gaya ko...hikhik) nagkakaroon ng sense ang mga bagay na noon akala natin senseless... think of it... i can think of a lot of instances na kagaya nito pero I will post them n lang on another occasion. Mapapahaba itong item 1 e. hehe. 2. ang pressure pala n mag-asawa sa mga taong paparating na sa kanilang ikatlong dekada, in other words, mga late 20s, ay for real... akala ko dati cool ka lang*(^ lang yung mga tito ko nung sinabi nila sa isang tita ko n kailangan na cya mag-asawa dahil 30 n cya. sabi ko nun, tangina ano naman kung umabot ng 50 at walang asawa?! di lang yung pagkakaroon ng pamilya ang isyu dito... pati na rin yung sexuality mo... pag kasi umabot na ng 30, ur susceptible to the malicious suspicion na bading ka... at isa pa, up until now, at this age, ur still not certain as to your fertility! e pano kung baog ako? ?! hahaha. ;D ;D 3. at this point in your life, you begin to think a lot about getting old. not that much for the sake of just thinking about it... you fear it! di ka na bata and you're supposed to act like your a matured, productive member of society. and to think na i'm way off my time, aba sobrang nakakaalarma! wala lang... i just felt that i need to share this with you. kanina pa to tumatakbo sa utak ko habang nakasakay ako ng fx pauwi. this is the current events forum anyway. and this is what's cooking in my world of ideas. haha. reactions are welcome! let's make this section of the forum board more personal. i'll be waiting for your stories... see u when i c u!
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Raket
Jan 11, 2006 17:26:09 GMT -5
Post by Mads on Jan 11, 2006 17:26:09 GMT -5
Lam mo Apol.. matured ka na at productive sa society.. but the question is.. sinu- sino ba ang mga taong malapit/ importante sa buhay mo ang nagpaparamdam na matured at productive ka nga? :)Halos lahat sa atin dumarating sa point of realization kung ano ba talaga ang pagkatao natin o gaano ba tayo kahalaga.. sa palagay ko dumarating tayo sa ganoong oras dahil hindi sapat ang "appreciation"na nangyapling sa mga taong malalapit sa atin?( Tama ba) If you gonna ask me if i asked my existence or importance i have done that many many times But right now... (and i know it will be forever) I am so happy with Alan ( My husband).. Some says aga ko daw nag asawa... Who cares!? I will never never let him go... because he is so honest, faithful, loving, funny, weird, smart.. and good looking.Everybody has imperfections diba? For me.. he is perfect and our relationship is "Perfectly normal"..hahahh. ;D Also, age is not a big issue here... LAhat tayo tatanda.. and we cant stop getting old and older..Its how you live your life..at expressing how you appreciate people around you.. always think that its your last day on earth para lagi ka masaya..Kung ikaw problemado na sa edad.. ano kaya ang naiisip ng mga tatay at nanay mo sa edad nila? o lolo at lola mo? Im certain that once tinanong din nila ang sarili nila kung matured na ba sila o if they are productive in our society... Oi baka naman baog ka lang talaga? Joke ;D
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Raket
Jan 12, 2006 5:38:59 GMT -5
Post by michaeldg83 on Jan 12, 2006 5:38:59 GMT -5
Apol, getting old is not an issue anymore. Your fairly or (should i say relatively young) to think about that. And dont rush yourself into marriage, enjoy yourself, whether with the company of someone or alone. But of course, better be happy with somebody, di ba? Anyway, you've grown so much wisdom in so short a time man! hehehe. And youre not doing bad believe me, just don't try to prove so much to the world, it will just be an endless chase after the wind! Moreso, youve done alot, come to think of it, at fifteen you can get somebody pregnant and then what? Look around you and look what other people have done nuts with their lives, you'd feel better hehehe.
"Non est ad astra mollis e terris via" There's no easy way from earth to the stars ---Seneca---
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wena
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Raket
Jan 16, 2006 0:39:01 GMT -5
Post by wena on Jan 16, 2006 0:39:01 GMT -5
nice discussion...coming from apol? this topic really reeminds me of the not-so-old-days with you guys...iyong mga panahong akala ko e pwedeng wla tyong pakialam sa mundo. this topic reminds me of the days when apol would say "so what?!"--tila wlang pakialam s mundo. iyon bang we live most of our free time---drinking, smoking, laughing, loitering at the CAS lobby, and regarding ourselves as fair critics for passers-by...nothing matters but the urge to be happy.
apol is ryt, time is so fast we haven't noticed that we've already spent most of it grabbing all the satisfaction life has to offer. what do most of us forget? it's actually finding the right thing that could really make you complete...not just happy but COMPLETE...the essence lies there...when you find completeness-- whether in a person or in a career that you choose -- everything falls rightfully into their own places...it's like quenching the thirst from child likelihood days that were supposed to have been lived productively giving us steady benefits for life.
now, to everyone who reads this and feels empty re-assessing yourselves whether it's time to get married (i recommend: those only at the RIGHT age should be thinking of this : ) ) or to finally make sense of whatever you are doing but that doesn't exactly make you happy, maybe --just maybe-- it's the right time not just to enjoy life but think and prepare for the picture when you are no longer young but has tons of life's responsibilities.
Everything boils down to this: always choose something that makes you feel complete...this does sound ideal, but true. if we try this, we will feel happier, happier than we've ever imagined.
for apol, just a piece of advice...go out man and find that woman who could make you heart leap out of its place, that could give you a reason to wake up and smile, someone whom you could talk with and feel liberated afterwards, a special girl who could make the end of your day...fulfilling. or if you've already found her, never let go! at saka na natin pag-usapan ang kasal! : )
Good luck to all of us! ganito nga pla pag tumatanda na...hahaha...madami nang nalalamang kabalbalan, but worth the reading eh?
'miss you all guys...
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Raket
Jan 16, 2006 10:30:11 GMT -5
Post by apol on Jan 16, 2006 10:30:11 GMT -5
how interesting! can't you see that the ones who sent their replies are all getting there? haha. hi oldies! thanks guys! you make me feel sane... hehe. sana lang yung ibang members ng board magparamdam! teka lang pala... do you guys know when do you blink? do you guys know when does the water in the glass drip? do you know when the dam breaks? stated differently, when do you say "i've had enough!"? fernando poe would say, kapag puno n ang salop dapat ng kalusin. pero kailan nga ba napupuno ang salop? paano ba natin nalalaman na dumating na yung huling patak ng tubig na magpapatulo sa tubig na laman ng baso? wala lng! hahaha. i cannot make sense out of this inquiry but i do know that i'ts time to make sense of the things we've desperately tried to avoid in the past. let's talk about that thing you only talk about when the lights are off. i'll be waiting.
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Raket
Jan 20, 2006 6:55:56 GMT -5
Post by cherrylou on Jan 20, 2006 6:55:56 GMT -5
wow di ko alam na pinoproblema n pla ng isang henyo ang bagay na ito...habagay tumatanda k na rin lang..hehehehe..kung sa akin lang hindi naman basihan ang pagiging kontento sa buhay kung meron kang someone na kasama sa buhay mo(gf...) kung ganon man yon sana wala ng taong walang asawa...o nagtry to have someone na special... bat kasi ganon matanong ang tao...dumarating din talaga yong ganong eded pero as long as you know yourself at naniniwala ka dit do kevs... lang hehehe yeah..lumabas ka kac..kusang darating ang taong laan sa iyo...pero minsan kasi sa sobrang atat ng tao siya ang naghahanap kaya nakakahanap ng mali..pero minsan kung di ka kikilos at di mo xa hinanap di din kau magkikita..malay mo inaantay k na rin pala...hehehe yon pa yong nakakabwisit sa tao..pagtumatanda e ang daming expectations sa iyo...kaya maraming tumatandang paurong..hehehehe... anong masama sa pagtanda..kasunod nyan e kamatayan..enjoy life n lang.. sana punta ka sa anniv... ei kuya...muzta n? ??
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Raket
Jan 20, 2006 20:20:15 GMT -5
Post by rachelle on Jan 20, 2006 20:20:15 GMT -5
for that natural na ata sa mga devcom studes ang mga ganitong kasentihan, minsan kung anu-anong mga bagay/ideyang lmlbas para lang may mapagdaldalan...nweiz,it's worth it naman,at least may sense, devah...haha.
ate weng is ryt...may mga bagay nga nman na pilit natin minsang inaabot but we can't, kasi my oras kung kelan ito mapapasa-atin...just like love,haaayy..love na nmn,mlpt na kzeng mag-valentine,harhar!
sabi nga, we must live our lives the best way we can, kasi we'll never know kung kelan and d end ng ating life. having a boyfriend/girlfriend does'nt mean na kumpleto na ang ating kaligayahan sa buhay...ewan... sabi ng iba jan,di raw makukumpleto ang college life ko pag di ako mgkaka-boyfriend, i'l miss half of my life daw pag diko tri-ny....sus,kalokohan!!!(eversince kasi dipa ako nagka-boyfriend...)
we'll never know kung ano ang mkkpagpasaya sa isang tao, kaya minsan kahit iritang-irita na ako sa mga comments ng iba sa diko pa pagkakaron ng bf...ok lang...
huh,so much for dis,kulang lang ako sa tulog kaya nababaliw na naman ako,haha.
sa lahat po ng mga alumni ng CODE,were expecting your presence po on feb11...we'll try our very very best na ayusing mabuti yung celebration...
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Raket
Jan 20, 2006 20:24:11 GMT -5
Post by rachelle on Jan 20, 2006 20:24:11 GMT -5
lam mo kuya apol,...live your life to the fullest...haha...lalang, just recall yung mga chikahan natin before...remember nung applikante pa ako sa CODE? kung sinu-sinong teacher ang ino-okray natin,hehe,trulala naman lahat yun...ge po,
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